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10 Ways to Be More Like Jimmy Stewart

“Years ago my mother used to say to me, ‘In this world you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant.’ For years I was smart. I recommend pleasant.” – James Stewart in Harvey

Jimmy Stewart remains one of cinema’s most enduring icons—not because he played larger-than-life superheroes, but because he brought extraordinary integrity, warmth, and resilience to the ordinary human experience.

Here are 10 ways to cultivate that classic Jimmy Stewart quality in your day-to-day life:

1. Master the Unhurried Pause
Stewart’s trademark drawl wasn’t just a regional accent; it was a conversational pacing strategy. He never rushed to fill airtime. When spoken to, take a beat, process what was said, and respond with deliberate, thoughtful intention.

2. Practice Earnest Conviction
In movies like Mr. Smith Goes to Washington, Stewart exemplified absolute sincerity. Cultivate strong moral principles, stand up for what you believe is right—even when you’re the quietest voice in the room—and speak from a place of genuine belief rather than cynicism.

3. Embrace Accessible Humility
Despite being an Oscar-winning superstar and a decorated military leader, Stewart always carried himself like a approachable neighbor. Avoid pretension, acknowledge your mistakes openly, and treat everyone you meet with equal respect.

4. Cultivate Everyday Quiet Courage
True courage isn’t always loud or dramatic. As George Bailey in It’s a Wonderful Life, Stewart showed that doing the unglamorous, responsible thing for the sake of your family and community is its own form of heroism.

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5. Cultivate Active, Empathetic Listening
When Stewart shared a scene with someone, he wasn’t just waiting for his turn to speak—he was intensely present. Give people your full, undivided attention, lean in, and make them feel like their words genuinely matter.

“I think one of the main things is to be dynamic… to be able to express what you feel, and to have a feeling for other people.” — Jimmy Stewart

6. Keep Your Cool Under Pressure
Stewart served as a WWII bomber pilot, flying 20 combat missions and rising to the rank of Brigadier General in the U.S. Air Force Reserve. He brought that grounded, unflappable composure to his everyday life. Practice emotional self-regulation when circumstances get tense.

7. Find Delight in the Simple Things
Whether it was playing the accordion, writing lighthearted poetry, or spending time outdoors, Stewart maintained a childlike sense of wonder and appreciated life’s simple pleasures. Don’t take yourself so seriously that you forget how to enjoy the moment.

8. Value Long-Term Loyalty
Stewart was famously devoted to his friends, his hometown roots, and his wife, Gloria, to whom he was married for 44 years until her passing. Prioritize deep, lasting commitments over fleeting novelties.

9. Use Self-Deprecating Humor
Stewart was quick to poke fun at his own lanky posture, stammering speech, or awkward habits. A gentle, self-aware sense of humor makes you relatable and disarms tension in social settings.

10. Anchor Yourself in Your Community
In It’s a Wonderful Life, the core takeaway is that a person’s worth is measured by how much they enrich the lives of those around them. Invest time in your neighborhood, support local efforts, and build strong community ties.

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Ben Franklin Quotes

Here are some Ben Franklin quotes. Most of these were first published in Poor Richard’s Almanac, which Franklin produced.

A little neglect may breed great mischief… for want of a nail the shoe was lost; for want of a shoe the horse was lost; and for want of a horse the rider was lost.
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Dalai Lama, Cool Heroes

“We need cool heroes today, we don’t need hot heroes. By cool, I mean non-violent; I mean those who can be forceful, intelligent, just, and insightful, and speak up loudly and clearly but without getting angry—without indulging in hatred.
“People are afraid that if they let go of their anger and righteousness and wrath, and look at their own feelings—and even see the good in a bad person—they’re going to lose the energy they need to do something about the problem. But actually you get more strength and energy by operating from a place of love and concern. You can be just as tough, but more effectively tough. It’s like a martial art.”
– Dalai Lama

 

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Cats and Dogs Quote

“In order to keep a true perspective on one’s importance, everyone should have a dog that will worship him and a cat that will ignore him.” – Dereke Bruce

This quote is quite famous, showing up in a number of quotebases, but no one seems to know who Dereke Bruce is. If you look for him via Google, Yahoo or Amazon, nothing relevant comes up, other than this quote. Yours truly, your author, might be responsible for that. As you may know, I have been publishing insightful and fun trivia for years. I believe I found this quote in a 1980’s vintage Omni Magazine, and first published it in Almanac 1989. In the past several years, it has been picked up and repeated throughout the Internet.