Posted on Leave a comment

Mothers

Motherhood physically changes a woman’s brain. Studies have shown that certain areas of the brain undergo structural changes during pregnancy and after giving birth.

Mothers have a heightened sense of smell. Pregnancy hormones can increase a woman’s ability to detect and identify different scents.

The longest recorded duration for a woman to be pregnant is 375 days (over a year!). This occurred in 1945.

The record for the most children born to one mother is 69. A woman named Valentina Vassilyeva, who lived in 18th-century Russia, gave birth to 16 pairs of twins, 7 sets of triplets, and 4 sets of quadruplets.

In some species, mothers are capable of reproducing asexually through a process called parthenogenesis, where offspring are produced without fertilization.

Mothers produce breast milk that is perfectly tailored to their baby’s nutritional needs. The composition of breast milk changes as the baby grows.

This is a showcase site for Jeff Napier of US-Web-Design. Surprisingly low-cost solutions for all your website and marketing needs. More...

Some mothers have been known to breast-feed their children up to seven years old.

The world’s oldest known mother to give birth naturally was a woman named Omkari Panwar. She was 70 years old when she gave birth to twins in 2008.

The term “maternity leave” was first introduced in the United States in 1919.

Research suggests that children tend to inherit their intelligence from their mothers.

Motherhood can increase a woman’s lifespan. Several studies have shown that mothers tend to live longer than women without children.

The average age of first-time mothers is increasing in many countries. In the United States, for example, it reached a record high of 26.3 years in 2016.

In some cultures, a mother’s intuition is highly valued and considered a powerful tool for decision-making.

Mothers have been shown to have a significant impact on their children’s language development. They often play a crucial role in teaching children to speak and communicate effectively.

Motherhood can improve a woman’s multitasking skills. Juggling various tasks and responsibilities becomes a regular part of a mother’s life.

It has been noticed that women are generally better at multitasking, and men are better at focus. The reason is likely to date back to when women had to spread their attention over several children at once to keep them all safe. Meanwhile the man had to bag that antelope no matter what if his family was going to eat. He couldn’t pay attention anything else.

For the same reason, women are also more empathetic while men may be more impervious to pain. The mother had to understand and figure out what was wrong when her pre-verbal children were hurting. The man couldn’t stop hunting just because he scratched his way past a sticker bush.

A phenomenon known as “phantom kicking” can occur in some women after they have given birth. They may feel the sensation of their baby moving, even when they are no longer pregnant.

Motherhood can change a woman’s immune system. During pregnancy, a woman’s immune system is naturally suppressed to prevent it from attacking the developing fetus.

According to a study, a mother’s voice can have a soothing effect on her child. Hearing their mother’s voice activates areas of the brain associated with pleasure and emotional connection.

The world’s youngest documented mother was only 5 years old when she gave birth. Lina Medina from Peru delivered a healthy baby boy in 1939.

In many animal species, mothers exhibit strong protective instincts towards their young, often risking their own lives to ensure their offspring’s survival.

The average mother changes around 7,300 diapers by the time her child is two and a half years old.

In some cultures, mothers are believed to possess healing powers and are sought after for their ability to cure illnesses or provide comfort.

A mother’s love releases oxytocin, a hormone that promotes bonding and feelings of affection.

Motherhood can lead to changes in a woman’s metabolism. Some studies suggest that pregnancy can alter a woman’s metabolism and increase the risk of conditions such as diabetes and heart disease later in life.

The phrase “working mother” was first used in the late 19th century to describe women who engaged in paid employment while also raising their children.

Posted on Leave a comment

Fathers

The celebration of Father’s Day dates back to 1910 in the United States and is now celebrated in many countries worldwide.

The average age of first-time fathers is increasing. In the United States, it was around 27.4 years old in 2020.

According to a study by the American Academy of Pediatrics, fathers’ involvement in their children’s lives is associated with positive developmental outcomes, including improved cognitive development and higher academic achievement.

The world’s oldest known father was Nanu Ram Jogi, an Indian farmer who fathered his 21st child at the age of 90.

Fathers often experience hormonal changes after becoming dads. Testosterone levels decrease, while oxytocin and prolactin levels increase, promoting nurturing and bonding behaviors.

It has been noticed that men are generally better at focus and women are better at multitasking. The reason is likely to date back to when women had to spread their attention over several children at once to keep them all safe. Meanwhile the man had to bag that antelope no matter what if his family was going to eat. He couldn’t pay attention anything else.

This is a showcase site for Jeff Napier of US-Web-Design. Surprisingly low-cost solutions for all your website and marketing needs. More...

For the same reason, women are also more empathetic while men may be more impervious to pain. The mother had to understand and figure out what was wrong when her pre-verbal children were hurting. The man couldn’t stop hunting just because he scratched his way past a sticker bush.

The average father spends about 7 hours per week on child care activities, compared to 10 hours per week for mothers, according to a study by the Pew Research Center.

Studies have shown that involved fathers can have a positive impact on their children’s emotional well-being and mental health.

The term “dad bod” was popularized in 2015, referring to a more relaxed and less muscular physique often associated with fathers.

“Mister Mom:” The United States has the highest number of stay-at-home dads in the world, with around 2 million fathers choosing to be the primary caregivers for their children.

Sperm banks have specific requirements for donors, including factors such as height, weight, education, and physical health.

In many species, including seahorses and some birds, fathers are responsible for incubating eggs and caring for the offspring.

A father’s age at the time of conception can impact a child’s health. Older fathers have a higher risk of passing on genetic mutations and may increase the chances of certain health conditions in their children.

In a study published in the journal “Developmental Psychology,” it was found that fathers who are actively involved in their children’s lives tend to have kids with higher IQs and better linguistic and cognitive abilities.

In some indigenous cultures, fathers may play a significant role in naming their children, often choosing names with special meanings or connections to their heritage.

A study published in the journal “Pediatrics” found that children who have a close relationship with their fathers are less likely to experience behavioral problems and are more likely to exhibit pro-social behavior.

The world record for the most children fathered by a single man is believed to be held by a Moroccan emperor, Moulay Ismail the Bloodthirsty, who is said to have had 888 children.

In the animal kingdom, male seahorses give birth to their offspring. They carry fertilized eggs in a special pouch until they hatch.

According to a study published in the “Journal of Marriage and Family,” fathers who actively participate in household chores tend to have daughters who aspire to higher-paying careers traditionally dominated by men.

A study published in the journal “Nature Neuroscience” found that fathers’ brains undergo changes, including increased activity in areas associated with empathy and caregiving, when they become parents.

The concept of paternity leave is becoming more prevalent globally. Countries like Sweden, Norway, and Iceland offer generous paid paternity leave to fathers.

According to a study published in the journal “Pediatrics,” children who have involved fathers are have greater self-esteem and are less likely to engage in risky behaviors, such as drug use and delinquency.

The “World’s Greatest Dad” trophy was created by the American Trophy Company in 1954 and has since become a popular gift for Father’s Day.

A father’s voice has a unique impact on children. Studies show that babies can recognize and prefer their father’s voice within days of birth.

In 2016, a study published in the journal “Psychology of Men & Masculinity” found that fathers who play an active role in caregiving experience higher levels of happiness and satisfaction with their lives.

In some cultures, such as in parts of India and Africa, fatherhood is celebrated with specific rituals and ceremonies, such as baby-naming ceremonies or initiation rites.

According to a study published in the “Journal of Marriage and Family,” fathers who are actively involved in their children’s lives have healthier relationships with their partners.

Single fathers are a growing demographic. In the United States, the number of single fathers has increased from 300,000 in 1960 to over 2 million in 2020.

In the animal kingdom, male emperor penguins incubate the eggs and care for the chicks while the females go out to sea to hunt for food.

According to a study published in the journal “Evolution and Human Behavior,” expectant fathers experience hormonal changes, including increased levels of prolactin, a hormone associated with nurturing behavior.

The world’s shortest known father is Chandra Bahadur Dangi from Nepal, who stood at a height of 54.6 centimeters (21.5 inches). That’s shorter than an average 2-year-old.

The tradition of giving Father’s Day gifts, such as ties or tools, originated from the desire to promote gender equity and encourage men to embrace their nurturing side.

Posted on Leave a comment

Coincidences

Both Abraham Lincoln and John F. Kennedy were assassinated on a Friday while seated beside their wives. Both JFK and Abe Lincoln reported having dreams about being assassinated shortly before their deaths.

The Royal Synchronicity: Queen Elizabeth II was born on the same day that King George V, her grandfather, died.

The Unsinkable Woman: Violet Jessop, a stewardess, survived the sinking of the RMS Titanic in 1912, the sinking of the HMHS Britannic in 1916, and the collision of the RMS Olympic in 1911.

On December 5, 1664, a ship sank off the coast of Wales. The only survivor was a man named Hugh Williams. On December 5, 1785, another ship sank. One man survived, another Hugh Williams. On December 5, 1860, yet another ship went down with only one survivor – you guessed it – his name was Hugh Williams.

Mark Twain and Halley’s Comet: Mark Twain was born in 1835 when Halley’s Comet appeared, and he died in 1910 when the comet returned.

The Triple Lightning Strike: In 2006, Roy Sullivan, a park ranger, was struck by lightning for the seventh time, making him the person with the most recorded lightning strikes.

This is a showcase site for Jeff Napier of US-Web-Design. Surprisingly low-cost solutions for all your website and marketing needs. More...

Jonathan Swift wrote a classic book called Gulliver’s Travels that borders on science fiction. It was written before ‘science fiction’ was what you called such books. In this book he wrote about two moons circling Mars. His descriptions of their size and orbital distance weren’t perfect but surprisingly accurate. He did this one hundred years before they were described by astronomers.

The Reunited Brothers: Two brothers, separated at birth, named Jim Lewis and Jim Springer, coincidentally named their sons James Alan and James Allan.

The Train Crash Prediction: In 1895, author Morgan Robertson wrote a novel titled “Futility” about an unsinkable ship named the Titan that hit an iceberg and sank. Fourteen years later, the RMS Titanic suffered a similar fate.

In 1979, a man named Frane Selak survived a train crash, a plane crash, a bus crash, and a car crash, and then won the lottery.

The Converging Paths: In 1975, two women with the same name, both traveling from England to the Canary Islands, wearing identical clothing, and carrying similar bags, ended up sitting next to each other on the plane.

The Identical Twins: In 2002, two unrelated identical twin brothers, separated at birth, named Jim Springer and Jim Lewis, coincidentally reunited and discovered they shared the same first name, occupation, and hobbies.

The Bridge Collapse: In 1940, a worker named Harold C. W. Keevil fell off the unfinished Tacoma Narrows Bridge but survived. A year later, he was on the same bridge when it collapsed, but he survived again.

The Struck by Lightning Brothers: In 2018, two brothers, aged 5 and 7, were both struck by lightning on separate occasions within the span of a year.

The Separated Sisters: In 2007, two sisters named Samantha Futerman and Anaïs Bordier, who were adopted from South Korea, discovered they were identical twins after one saw the other in a YouTube video.

The Winning Lottery Numbers: In 2003, the winning numbers of the Virginia Lottery’s Pick 4 game were 6-6-6-6, causing a record number of winners and resulting in the lottery having to pay out millions of dollars.

The Mysterious Subway Meeting: In 2008, two strangers named Laura and Laura, who had the same birthday, height, hair color, and were both wearing a black coat and a red scarf, accidentally bumped into each other on the London Underground.

Posted on Leave a comment

Teenagers

The teenage brain is more susceptible to addiction because of the underdeveloped prefrontal cortex.

Teens require more sleep than adults, but their natural sleep cycle causes them to stay up later and wake up later.

Teenagers are more likely to take risks due to their developing brain and desire for social approval.

Teenagers are more likely to engage in “drama” or conflict due to their heightened emotional sensitivity.

The teenage years are a time when individuals begin to question their identity and develop their sense of self.

The teenage years are when most mental health disorders first appear.

This is a showcase site for Jeff Napier of US-Web-Design. Surprisingly low-cost solutions for all your website and marketing needs. More...

The frontal cortex, which controls decision-making and impulse control, is not fully developed until the mid-20s.

Teenagers are more likely to engage in risk-taking behaviors when they are in groups rather than alone.

The teenage years are a time when individuals begin to develop romantic and sexual relationships.

The teenage brain is more sensitive to the effects of alcohol and drugs.

Teenagers often experience a sense of invincibility and believe that negative consequences will not happen to them.

The teenage years are a time when individuals begin to develop their own values and beliefs.

The teenage years are a time when individuals begin to explore their sexuality and sexual orientation.

The teenage years are a time when individuals begin to develop empathy and emotional intelligence.

The teenage years are a time when individuals begin to think about their future and career goals.

Posted on Leave a comment

10 Weird Facts About Love

The feeling of falling in love releases the same chemicals in the brain as cocaine addiction.

In ancient Rome, people believed that the first kiss should always be initiated by the woman to avoid bad luck.

People who are in love have lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol.

The longest recorded marriage lasted for 91 years and 12 days.

Falling in love can cause physical symptoms, such as increased heart rate and sweating.

In Japan, there is a love hotel that is entirely staffed by robots.

This is a showcase site for Jeff Napier of US-Web-Design. Surprisingly low-cost solutions for all your website and marketing needs. More...

Scientists have found that people who are in love have more activity in the part of the brain associated with reward and pleasure.

In some African countries, it is customary for men to give their wives a love hut as a wedding gift.

Love at first sight is a real phenomenon, according to research that shows it takes only 4 minutes to decide whether you are attracted to someone.

In ancient Egypt, men used to wear perfume made from the sweat of their beloved.

People who are in love have higher levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine in their brains.

In the Middle Ages, people believed that if you sneezed three times in a row, it was a sign that you were in love.

A study found that when a person falls in love, their voice changes to become more similar to the person they are in love with.

In some cultures, it is customary for couples to exchange pieces of their own hair as a symbol of their love.

A group of flamingos is called a “flamboyance,” which is a fitting name for these birds who mate for life and perform elaborate courtship dances.

Studies show that people in happy relationships tend to live longer and have better overall health.

In medieval Europe, people believed that a woman could make a man fall in love with her by cooking his favorite meal and secretly adding her menstrual blood to the dish.

Couples who laugh together have stronger relationships, according to research.

In ancient China, women used to paint their teeth black to make themselves more attractive to men.

The song “Can’t Help Falling in Love” by Elvis Presley is based on a French song called “Plaisir d’amour” that was written in the 18th century.

Studies have shown that when two people are in love, their heartbeats can synchronize.

In ancient Greece, people believed that love was caused by arrows shot by Cupid, the god of desire.

A study found that holding hands with someone you love can help alleviate physical pain.

In some cultures, it is considered good luck for a bride to wear something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue on her wedding day.

In the 19th century, the word “flirt” meant “to flick,” as in to make a sudden movement, and was used to describe a woman who was behaving coquettishly.

Scientists have found that people in love have lower levels of serotonin, a neurotransmitter associated with depression.

In ancient Persia, men would give their wives a love apple on their wedding night, which was a fruit with a sweet taste that was believed to enhance fertility.

Studies show that people who are in love have better memory recall than those who are not.

In some cultures, it is customary for the groom to carry the bride across the threshold of their new home to protect her from evil spirits.

A study found that people who are in love can experience withdrawal symptoms similar to those of drug addiction when they are separated from their partner.

Posted on Leave a comment

World’s Fastest NLP Session

If you are unfamiliar with the magic of NLP, start here: What is NLP?

(I’m particularly proud of this one because it all happened in about two minutes.)

Jeff: What would you like?

Client: I still get along well with my ex. Well, no I don’t. Not really. Actually, that’s the problem. Every time we’re together, there’s a heaviness in the atmosphere, and a rising sort of frustration always develops.

Jeff: Does this happen with anyone else, or just your ex?

Client: Well, it used to happen with my mom.

This is a showcase site for Jeff Napier of US-Web-Design. Surprisingly low-cost solutions for all your website and marketing needs. More...

Jeff: Used to?

Client: Not any more. We get along great now.

Jeff: So, who changed?

Client [after long pause]: Oh. Oh. Oh! Right! [pause] Thanks!

Posted on Leave a comment

What is NLP?

At its core, NLP, also known as Neuro-Linguistic Programming, was originally about modeling successful behavior so that potentially anyone can have the skills of anyone else. What exactly is a financial genius thinking as she makes an investment? Master that, and you can invest the same way. Modeling top psychiatrists, psychologists and self-help gurus has been particularly successful.

That’s where it started. NLP has become much more, too.

NLP is the applied study of human nature. When well-applied, NLP is used to help yourself and others get more of what is wanted while honoring everyone involved. This is generally done by gaining new, often remarkable, understandings of current and desired situations. These are the most common formats:

Personal: Learn new ways to communicate more clearly, lovingly, respectfully, effectively. Help friends, family and co-workers when they are in need of support. Help yourself in many ways including better health, memory, personality, confidence, and so on.

Professional: Practitioners (also known as neuro-linguistic programmers) help clients discover blocks to success and happiness, and sometimes even health, typically in one- or two-hour sessions.

Business: NLP can be used to identify and repair less-than-perfect advertising and publicity. Use NLP techniques to create happy, productive work environments. With NLP, you can develop the best possible communication with customers and clients so everyone profits.

This is a showcase site for Jeff Napier of US-Web-Design. Surprisingly low-cost solutions for all your website and marketing needs. More...

The process: NLP is more about learning to understand things from new perspectives than anything else. Often, it is about consciously discovering erroneous beliefs that we formed as very young children, and noticing how we have unconsciously acted on those beliefs ever since. Many other times, it is simply a matter of attaching new meaning to things that we thought we understood. The Neuro-linguistic programmer will typically have a caring, honoring conversation with the client that involves asking specially-designed questions. Sometimes these questions cause wonderful changes all by themselves. The programmer may also offer metaphorical stories, reframing of perspectives, and anchoring. Anchoring takes many forms, such as a carefully timed squeeze of the arm, a bit of standing on specific spots on the floor, or a change of voice tone.

The changes can be remarkable. NLP is well-known for curing phobias, overcoming some addictions, helping with mind-body health issues, granting more confidence, or happiness, and ending procrastination. The changes are often permanent. (You can’t un-learn something. You can’t hide your car keys from yourself.)

There is also a negative side to NLP. It can be used badly by unlicensed programmers, it can be used to sell products, or for ‘speed seduction.’ However, like a pickup truck, it is innocent in itself. A pickup truck can carry bombs, or it can carry food.

NLP has its roots in many fields of research and practice, taking what works, and leaving the rest. The edges of the vast realm called NLP are fuzzy. For instance, you’ll often find NLP melded with hypnotherapy, law of attraction, the work of Byron Katie, Family Inheritance, and other pursuits. As your editor, I will attempt to bring you the most relevant and important information first, and work as far into those edges as is sensible. I am planning for unending growth of this website, and hope you’ll enjoy coming on this ride with me!

It is my intention that the NLP section of this website will teach NLP in its truest form, which honors and respects all people, and that you’ll not only learn NLP techniques here, but also the spirit of good NLP.

Take care! – Jeff Napier

Posted on Leave a comment

The Criticism to Praise Ratio

It has been studied and documented that we hear thirty-two items of criticism for each item of praise! It starts when we are babies, ” Ooooh, your diapers stink!” or ” Can’t you keep out of trouble for even one minute?” Sure, we may not have known what the words meant, but even Continue reading The Criticism to Praise Ratio

Posted on Leave a comment

Aging

Have you ever felt that we have this age thing backwards? Most people in modern society worship youth, but youth is only good because of its room for potential development. Age equals wisdom, an irreplaceable commodity that you can’t just buy at Wal-Mart. If nothing else, whether you are young or old, listen to what old people have to say. They have been around and know the best ways to tackle problems that young people could otherwise only guess at.

Posted on Leave a comment

Love and Attention

Researchers at Ohio University accidentally proved that love and attention is good preventive medicine. They were doing experiments with rabbits to test effects of cholesterol blocked arteries. All the groups of rabbits got sick as expected except one group. Everything was the same for this group except one thing: Each rabbit in this group was being held and stroked by the student in charge of feeding them. Later experiments specifically involving loving some rabbits and ignoring others proved that the effect is real.

Albino rabbit, also known as ‘laboratory rabbit’

Posted on Leave a comment

King Maximilian II’s Daugher

King Maximilian II was concerned about a possible duel between two young men who both wanted to marry his daughter. To prevent any such fight, he had them compete for her hand with a burlap bag. The objective was accomplished after an hour of struggle, when one suitor had the other firmly enclosed in the bag.
King Maximillian II, public domain via Wikimedia Commons
Posted on Leave a comment

Eccentric People

Dr. David Weeks, a psychologist, has studied eccentric people extensively. He has discovered that eccentric people are typically more intelligent and have a better sense of humor than the average population. They are healthier, visiting the doctor only 1/24 as often as typical folks, and live from five to ten years longer than average! When asked about their happiness, eccentrics report that they are quite happy.